Dear Warriors and Thrivers...

Dear fellow Warriors and Thrivers,

It’s okay. It’s okay to mourn the life you had before cancer. 

Cancer sucks in general… but cancer during COVID really sucks.

Before moving back to Chicago I was excited to return home, start an exciting new job, reconnect with childhood friends, go up to Wisconsin to reunite with other friends and make new ones. I was also looking forward to Door County in the Autumn. COVID took my experiences, and yours, away… for now. We will reclaim our lives bit by bit. It may take longer then expected, but every day let's vow to do something to reclaim a bit of “normal.” For me, this particular day, it was a short stroll.

I went for a walk and scowled at people not wearing masks. I yelled internally, “Don’t you know how hard it is for me to get out for a walk! You’re taking your life, and others, for granted you selfish humans!” It’s hard for people who haven’t gone through chemo to truly understand what it feels like to have this poison run through your veins. You love it and you hate it. It’s going “Pew! Pew! Pew!” to your tumors so you cheer it on. However, it’s legit burning your body… healthy cells as well. The 10 minute walk took a lot of effort and I was in pain after.

My message to all you Thrivers and Warriors is simple. Keep going! It’s hard to keep living life when someone’s lack of respect for your own is always weighing on you. Health is the number one gift. I realized that when I first fought cancer in 2016. People take their health for granted. I’ve been guilty of that too. You’d think COVID would awaken the world to how precious good health is. I think some people are still asleep. While things won’t ever be the same due to the Coronavirus… we all have to adjust to the new “normal.”

To all of you who have your health this next message is for you. Please hear me. I understand you’re finding it difficult to accept your new “normal” too. Thanksgiving is upon us. It is my favorite holiday. No matter how much my extended family and I would love to get together… we are not. Pictures of packed airports and stories of people planning traditional, large, Thanksgiving gatherings are popping up on social media. Let’s all do what we can this holiday season so we can have large gatherings next year. Stay at home. Zoom together. Yes, I know your new normal sucks too! I am sorry for that. However, how much more will it suck if we have to do this again next year. How much will it suck if your Thanksgiving plans get you sick, your loved ones sick or complete strangers sick… or worse cause their death. It will suck. So let’s just suck it up and stay home. 

Sincerely,

Jessica