Tuesday, January 26, 2016

Hello Fab 40's

It’s the final day of my 30‘s. I’m going to embrace it by sharing a little of what I learned over the years ... from childhood up to last year. Here’s to the Fab 40’s!

1.         Family is forever
2.         The grass isn’t always greener on the other side
3.         Find your passion. It’s okay if you don’t know what that is.
4.         Some friends are meant to be with you for a period of time. Others are for forever.
5.         Spend money
6.         Save money
7.         Be a risk taker
8.         Smile more
9.         It’s okay to fail. It’s what makes you stronger.
10.      Be giving
10.         Be thankful for what you have-- not what you don’t
11.         Remember where you came from
12.         You do turn into one of your parents as you get older ... well a little
13.         Just be
14.         Be proud of your journey. We all start somewhere.
15.         Don’t close doors that are half open
16.         Fall in love at least once
17.         Embrace your curls
18.         Don’t apologize for doing things that make you happy
19.         Thank your parents. They put up with a lot.
20.         Travel as much as you can
21.         Don’t work your life away
22.         There’s nothing wrong with being single. Finding love takes time. Don’t settle.
23.         You learn who your real friends are during your darkest moments
24.         Drink tea. It’s a cup of happiness.
25.         Admit when you’re wrong. It’s not a sign of weakness. It’s a sign of strength.
26.         Don’t throw away your shot
27.         Workout
28.         When you have a bad day remember someone out there is having a worse day
29.         Life is short
30.         Years fly by the older you get
31.         Call your parents daily and tell them you love them
32.         Celebrate your Birthday. You never know if it will be your last.
33.         It’s okay to call out sick. Your colleagues will be okay.
34.         Bungee jump
35.         “People be crazy.” It’s a fact of life. It’s how you deal with the crazy that matters.
36.         Ask questions
37.         Dance around your apartment, home, condo (etc). It will make you happy!
38.         Let it go
39.         Embrace your imperfections. It what makes you special.
40.         Even if you don’t take it ... listen to your parents advice. 

Sunday, January 10, 2016

My Happy Place


Everyone has a happy place. I truly believe mine is at the Al Hirschfeld Theatre watching Kinky Boots.

Yes, I understand I’ve seen the show 30-something times probably. Yes, I get eye rolls... a lot. It doesn’t bother me. I won lotto Saturday night and I was going to go see Wayne Brady as Lola for the first time! Yes, I feel some of your judgement eyes through the screen. It’s okay. Judge away!

There’s just something about this show and the people in the show. The cast has changed since the first time I went to final dress in Chicago. The show has changed. However, when I walk into the theatre it’s the same.  I just feel the love. It’s like coming home to a big hug from a friend you haven’t seen in a bit.  I don’t come as often as I used to. There are so many amazing shows on Broadway I’m blessed to see. However, I come back as often as I can to show my support to a show and cast that lifts spirits, spreads love and preaches to “Just Be!” 

As I settled into my box seat I was excited to see the changes. I appreciate live theatre. Every show is different. Every audience is different. Every stage door experience is different.

I haven’t been inspired to stage door shows lately. I honestly don’t think I stage doored any shows last year. I’m not sure why. Maybe it’s because I can be a bit shy if I’m not with friends?  However, I really wanted to stage door Saturday to see some people I hadn’t seen in ... well ... probably a year. I settled along the barricade and was sandwiched between some really great people.  The man next to me asked why I’ve come so many times. I get this question a lot. I looked at him and told him, “It makes me happy.” The show has an important message and the original cast members still in the show have each left a footprint on my heart.  I explained I went to the final dress rehearsal in Chicago. I explained how I came back to New York the following morning and excitedly told my colleagues how I knew this show was going to be big. I just knew there was something special about it. 

30-something shows later ... there IS still something special about it. I still cry during the same scenes. I still smile when I see familiar faces step onto the stage. I still love this musical.

I’m sure there are many of you who feel that way about a musical. Maybe it’s Spring Awakening. Maybe it’s Rent. Maybe it’s Les Miserables. For me ... it’s Kinky Boots ... a show that every time I leave ... has me, and everybody saying “Yeah!” 

Sunday, October 18, 2015

"Sylvia" A Play Worth Fetching A Ticket For


It’s been a bit since I’ve written a blog about a Broadway show. Last week I saw one of my favorites again ... Kinky Boots. I had taken a long hiatus from the show and was happy to be back at the factory again. It was at the Al Hirschfeld where I was introduced to the talented, Tony-award winning, Annaleigh Ashford. I’d been wanting to see Sylvia, in which she plays a dog named Sylvia.  I also wanted to see this show because of Matthew Broderick. My first Broadway show was How to Succeed in Business Without Really Trying.  I hadn’t seen Mr. Broderick on Broadway since ... and figured it was about time! 

So, what did I do? I decided not to play dead on a Sunday morning and run over to the Cort Theatre to take advantage of the rush tickets. I got front row, dead center, for .... drum roll ... 32 bucks! You can’t beat that! So, with my tail wagging I settled into my seat. 

The show is still in previews. As I flipped through the Playbill I reminded myself of that. I went in with no expectations. So ... when Annaleigh bound out as a dog ... I howled with delight! Robert Sella’s (Tom/Phyllis/Leslie) and Annaleigh’s comedic timing had everyone barking for more. The play did more than make the audience laugh. They cried too. 

Sylvia chews away at Greg (Matthew Broderick) and Kate’s (Julie White) marriage ... but she also tugs at your heart. Though Sylvia is always the focal point, the play isn’t really about her. There’s a real message of connecting and community in A.R. Gurney’s work. It’s hard to always connect ... to feel part of a pack ... especially in such a large place as New York City. Every day though, we do connect. We connect with people, nature and animals. I almost connected with the pigeon that swooped down at me today. That was a bit scary! I connected with the young girl that smiled at me on my home, and I connected with the fellow theatre-goers at the Cort Theatre. For that time ... we were all in the theatre. We were all connected. We were all part of a pack. 

Just as Sylvia fetches Kate’s missing book, I recommend you fetch a ticket this play. I guarantee you’ll want to “sit” ... and “stay” ... for this work of art.

Saturday, January 17, 2015

All Aboard The Last Ship


It’s always the shows that I don’t expect much from that always surprise me.  Yesterday, I could say that about at least two musicals. Today, I could say that about three. “The Last Ship.” 

The show .... whose lyrics and music is written by Sting .... is closing January 24th. In all honesty I had no plans to see this musical. For some reason it just didn’t peak my interest. However, last weekend something in my gut told me, “Go see this show.” So, I bought a ticket. 

I had no expectations when I walked into the Neil Simon Theatre.  The theatre was packed, and I was happy to see that. Like myself, some of the people around me didn’t know much about the musical ... but came for the music and ... in part ... to see Sting on Broadway. 

I honestly can stay I didn’t go see the musical to see Sting. I came to hear his music. From the first song to the last ... it was the music that spoke the most to me and the people around me. The show is full of songs ... each with a different story to tell and each so different. Every song was so beautifully written and told by the actors on stage. I could hear people comment after certains songs, “Wow!” “That was great!” “Beautiful!” They were just whispering out loud what I was saying in my head! 

I left the theatre feeling shocked and impressed with Sting. Yes. He’s a humanitarian. Yes. He’s a Grammy winner. Yes. He’s a rock star. Now, he can add Broadway to his list of achievements.

I can’t say how Sting must have felt when he began The Last Ship’s journey. I know how I would have felt. I would have felt scared but excited. Nervous and unsure. Confident but anxious. Whatever Sting felt on this voyage he didn’t let it stop him. Sting saw this project through. He didn’t give up on it and he tried something new. He took a chance. For that ... I applaud him and thank him. Without him ... and the many others who jumped on board ... “The Last Ship” would have never set sail.

Don’t let this musical sail away without seeing it. Heck! The gal who said she didn’t want to see it might go see it one more time before bidding it bon voyage.

“If my ship sails from sight, it doesn’t mean my journey ends, it simply means the river bends.” -Enoch Powell

Wednesday, November 26, 2014

A Thanksgiving Message

It’s Thanksgiving!  My favorite holiday of the year. I love this time of year… though this year seems to have come and gone in a blink of an eye! Maybe it’s living in New York City. The city is so fast paced. Maybe that’s what makes each year go by faster and faster.  

Goodbyes to a year are always difficult.  Autumn turns the air chillier, pales out the sun, and warms the colors of the leaves. You start evaluating your life as Autumn leaves. A sort of New Year’s resolutions in reverse. I look back to who I’ve lost along the way and who I gained. People may decide to move on or drift away, but Autumn is something I can count on. It always returns … and so does Thanksgiving.  

I am thankful for a lot this year. It hasn’t been an easy year. My small group of friends and family are what have gotten me through it. During hard times you learn more about yourself. You also learn more about those you choose to surround yourself with. So this year I am thankful most of all for my family and friends. They are the people who have made my year special and survivable.


So before you go Autumn… and your colder sister Winter sneaks in … I’d just like to say “thank you.” Thank you to all those who have warmed my heart on cold days and put a smile on my face other days. I hope I have done the same for you. Happy Thanksgiving!

Wednesday, August 20, 2014

The World Will Know


Stop the Presses! Newsies is closing Sunday. I’ve blogged about this show before. It’s one of my favorites. I will miss it on Broadway. While Fansies won’t be Carrying The Banner in New York City much longer ... you can definitely see the cast is Seizing each Day.

I came to today’s matinee to pay tribute to the show. It was my 11th and final time seeing Newsies. It’s always a little sad to see a show close on Broadway. You could tell the audience knew there was something different about this Wednesday matinee. That it was the last Wednesday. They were definitely Watching what was Happening on stage a bit more intently. The looks the cast shared ... the tears during parts of the show that weren’t there in the past ... the appreciation oozing from the seats around them. The applause was longer than usual after each number ... and you could see it. You could see it in each cast members eyes. They were soaking it in.

While these talented Newsies will relinquish their King of New York titles ... The Bottom Line is that this part of their lives will end in a few days. The show will close. The tour will begin (No. It’s not stopping in Santa Fe). The World Will Know. The torch will be passed. The roar from audiences across the country will rise. The world will feel the fire and finally know what Fansies know .... that this show ... It’s Rich. It’s rich in dance. It’s rich in talent. It’s rich in life lessons. It’s rich in love.

So Newsies ...thank you for giving us Something To Believe in ... for even a day. 

  

Thursday, May 8, 2014

Part Of Something


It’s that time of year again. Tony Time! It’s the time of year where Broadway is buzzing with anticipation, hope and pride. It’s also the time of year I try my hardest to squeeze in the shows I’d like to see before the awards. I have to admit “The Bridges of Madison County” was not on my “to see” list. Like many shows adapted to Broadway, I didn’t know the story. I hadn’t read the book or watched the movie either. However, one day I came across the uber talented, Tony-nominated, Kelli O’Hara singing “Almost Real” on YouTube. She took my breath away. I knew by that one single performance I had to see the show. It’s funny how social media can do that. So, when my friend Kim asked if I wanted to go I said, “Yes!” 

I had worked a long day and my allergies were driving my nuts, but I was excited to see this show and on a week night. It was a full house. My seat from the second row allowed me the opportunity to get ... well ... let’s say an intimate look at the actors. People next to me giggled, cried and sighed when Steven Pasquale would (as Susan Blackwell stated during an interview), open his mouth and let that, “rainbow of sound come out.” The mix of amazing vocals combined with an unbuttoned shirt is something I could watch and listen to every day. It’s like an ice cream sundae with whipped cream!As for Kelli O’Hara. Kelli is like the hot fudge and cherry that drips over the ice cream. I have no words because she is just that perfect. Anyway, now that we are all craving ice cream ... back to the show. The lights dim, the orchestra plays ... and we leave bustling New York City for a quiet farming community in Iowa. Two plus hours later the people sitting next to me turn to me and ask something many people are asking, “Why is this show closing again?” “I don’t know,” I tell them. I shake me head in disbelief. I look them each in the eye and say, “It’s a work of art.”

I know all Broadway and Off-Broadway shows are pieces of art. However, for me, this was a work of art. From the beautifully choreographed changes of scenery, to the lighting, the lyrics and orchestration. It was perfection. It has everything a show should have ... especially the most important element. That element is the ability to connect with the audience. I could see myself in nearly every single character. Most important though are the themes that are so beautifully woven into the fabric of the story. The first is the idea of living a different life ... the choices we make. What if we hadn’t opened that door. What if I hadn’t have said, “yes.” What if I’d said, “no.” The second: community. Community is talked about in the songs“You’re Never Alone” and “To Build A Life.” In New York City you’re never alone, but at the same time you can feel alone. That’s where community comes in. Community is important. Whether it’s the community of friends you make or the community in which you live. It’s what makes living in such a hard place like New York sustainable. You try to build a life. You try to build a home. Your home and life are all based on choices you’ve made, chances you took and opportunities you passed on. It’s also about living in the moment and being part of something ... being connected.  

I think that’s what makes Broadway so special. The connection. The connection made between actors. The connection made between the actors and the audience.The connection amongst those watching a show ... together.  Broadway is about community too though. It’s a giving community, a hard working community, a community that comes together every year to recognize and celebrate their achievements. The Tony Awards. I don’t know why “The Bridges of Madison County” wasn’t nominated for Best Musical. I do know that the cast and creative team doesn’t need an award to know that this show has touched the hearts of many who have seen it. I know it has mine.